Darlene Lancer on Obsession and Love Addictions

Darlene Lancer on Shame

Darlene Lancer, author of Codependency for Dummies, shares her thoughts on obsession and love addictions in her following guest post… Just as an addict obsesses on his drug of choice, as codependents, we obsess on the addict. Obsessions, although painful, can keep us in denial of even more painful feelings and fears. Thus, it can…

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Join the Addiction Recovery Movement

Change happens. Sometimes it’s rapid. Sometimes it’s so slow you wonder if it’s ever going to really change. One such “is it ever going to really change” movements is the Women’s Rights Movement. In my “before,” I studied the Women’s Rights Movement and wrote two biographies, one on Elizabeth Cady Stanton and one on Susan…

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Anonymous Still

Anonymous Still is a guest post by a mother whose child has the disease of addiction. ____________________ My child is almost 7 and he’s getting ready to go on a campout with his Dad. He ‘s just learned how to ride a skateboard and still calls me Mommy. He has his whole life ahead of…

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Darlene Lancer on Accepting What We Cannot Change

Darlene Lancer on Shame

Darlene Lancer, author of Codependency for Dummies, shares her thoughts on accepting what we cannot change… One of the early authors on codependency, Psychiatrist Timmen Cermak, believes that codependents and addicts “control their lives by sheer force of will.” It makes sense that the first step of Alcoholics Anonymous, Al-Anon, and Codependents Anonymous addresses control.…

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Thriving Through PAWS | Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome

Post Acute Withdrawal Syndrome – PAWS – can unravel a person’s early addiction recovery. Lisa Hann shares her thoughts on PAWS and the two books she wrote to help people thrive in early recovery in spite of what can often be a difficult period in the recovery process. Lisa is a freelance writer and author…

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Mothers in Recovery – Documentary Film by Sheila Ganz

On Life’s Terms: Mothers in Recovery is a powerful documentary film by Sheila Ganz. In her guest post below and through her blog, OnLifesTerms.org, Sheila introduces readers to this film, which she created to raise awareness about what needs to happen in order to help mothers struggling with addiction keep their children while they pursue…

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Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and Recovery

The Intensive Outpatient Program (IOP) and its role in the model of today’s addiction treatment and recovery plans is explained in the following guest post by Erika Cormier. Erika is a writer outside of Boston, right over the border in Southern New Hampshire, and author of the book, As the Smoke Clears, a Memoir, telling…

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