Posts Tagged ‘codependency’
Behind Every Alcoholic or Drug Addict is a Family Member or Two or Three…
We often forget that behind every alcoholic or drug addict is a family member — often several family members — spouses, parents, children, siblings, grandparents, aunts and uncles. ________________________ The light in his eyes was gone – blind fury stared forth. Alex* was no longer there. I felt terror like I’d never known but knew…
Read MoreCodependent Children – What Can Parents Do?
Codependent children — one of the tragic outcomes in families with untreated, undiagnosed, unhealthily discussed substance abuse and/ addiction. Darlene Lancer shares valuable information to help parents help their children avoid growing up to be codependent. But first, a bit about Darlene… Darlene Lancer is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and author of Codependency…
Read MoreRecovery Resentment
Recovery resentment – the reason you still feel angry, lonely, hurt, and raw when your loved one is finally in recovery. Author Carolyn Hughes explains. The following is a guest post by Carolyn Hughes, a freelance writer with special interest in alcohol issues. Carolyn is currently writing The Hurt Healer, a novel based on her own…
Read MoreSo What is Codependency?
Codependency – so what is it? This was a very difficult concept for me to grasp. And for the longest time (like almost 4 decades as of 2003), I didn’t even try because I didn’t think it had anything to do with me. But for those of you who’ve read my latest book, 10th Anniversary…
Read MoreThe Dance of the Family Disease of Addiction
Addiction (whether to drugs or alcohol) affects everyone in the family, which is why it’s commonly referred to as a “family disease” — the family disease of addiction. It causes members of a family to develop coping methods that help them interact with one another because no one really knows , understands and/or is willing…
Read MoreStop Blaming, Start Living
The following is a guest post by Carolyn Hughes, a freelance writer with special interest in alcohol issues. Carolyn is currently writing The Hurt Healer, a novel based on her own experiences of abuse and alcoholism, and lives in Northern Ireland with her husband and their two daughters. She celebrates 13 years sobriety and says, “My…
Read MoreSayings to Help Reframe Your Thinking
Whatever it takes to reframe your thinking can be of help in early recovery (or in any situation, for that matter). Why? Because what and where we think determines how we behave. This is true whether trying to stop drinking, reduce drinking or cope with someone’s drinking behaviors. This post expands on this concept, “Understand…
Read MoreCo-Dependency In Men
Co-dependency in men is not often talked about. The following is a guest post by Ken Powers, co-author of the book, We Codependent Men, We Mute Coyotes. The inspiration for his book comes from growing up as the child of parents who did not drink but whose mothers [his grandmothers] did and whose families had long…
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